OurDream & AI Girlfriend FAQ for Canada
Thirty-one questions about AI girlfriends, AI companions and adult AI chat, answered in full rather than in one line. Where a fact about OurDream can't be verified from outside the platform, we say so plainly and point you to OurDream's own current terms instead of guessing.
The categories below run from the basics — what these products are — through to the practical questions people actually get stuck on: memory, customisation, billing, and what happens to a conversation after you close the window.
Answers describe how this category of product generally works. For anything specific to OurDream — pricing, availability, features, terms — the only accurate source is OurDream itself, because those details change and this guide is not updated by them.
Category 01
OurDream
What the platform is, how to reach it, and what this website is not.
OurDream is an AI companion platform — a service where you talk to AI characters through a chat interface, with personality, memory and customisation built in. It is the platform this site points to; it is not operated by us. This site is an independent guide, so we describe how platforms in this category generally work and link out to OurDream for the product itself. For what OurDream specifically includes today — current features, character library, account types and terms — OurDream's own site is the only accurate source, because those details change.
OurDream is a web-based platform, so it isn't distributed through a Canadian app store listing and there's no regional download to wait for. Whether it accepts Canadian users, and any restrictions that apply, is set by OurDream itself and can change. This guide can't confirm account availability, verification requirements or regional limits on OurDream's behalf — check the current terms on OurDream directly. The Canadian guide to AI girlfriends covers what users here typically look for before signing up.
No. ourdream-ai.ca is an independent informational website about the AI companion category. It is not owned by, operated by or affiliated with OurDream beyond referring visitors to it. We don't sell accounts, we don't host chat features, and nothing on this site runs AI of its own. Some outbound links are affiliate or referral links, which may earn us a commission at no extra cost to you. Where we can't verify a claim about OurDream, we say so rather than repeating a marketing line — that's the whole point of the site.
Yes — OurDream is reached through a web browser, so it works on a phone or tablet the same way it does on a desktop, as long as you have a current browser and a connection. No download is required to reach the site itself. Whether a dedicated mobile app also exists, and what that app supports, is something only OurDream can confirm currently, and app availability varies by region and platform store. Check OurDream directly if a native app matters to you.
Category 02
AI Girlfriends
The category itself: what it is, how it differs from a chatbot, and what you can change about it.
An AI girlfriend is a character with a defined personality that you talk to through text, usually with a romantic or companion framing. What separates it from a general-purpose chatbot is continuity: the character keeps a consistent tone, remembers earlier conversations, and is typically customisable in appearance and personality. The romance element is a framing rather than a technical feature — the same underlying system can present as a friend, a partner or a fantasy character. Our Canadian guide to AI girlfriends covers the category in more detail.
A general chatbot is built to answer things. An AI girlfriend is built to be someone. In practice that means three differences: a persistent persona that holds across sessions, memory of what you've told her, and settings you control — tone, relationship type, appearance. A chatbot resets; a companion character accumulates. That's also why expectations matter. A companion is optimised for the quality of the interaction rather than for factual accuracy, so it isn't a research tool and shouldn't be treated as one.
On most platforms, yes, and customisation is often the main feature. You typically set appearance, personality traits, a relationship type and sometimes a voice. Our character creation guide walks through each decision in the order they matter. What differs between platforms is how much freedom you get, whether custom characters stay private to you, and whether they can be shared publicly. If building a character from scratch is the part that interests you, that's the thing to test first.
Most platforms in this category offer some form of free access alongside paid tiers, but the terms differ substantially and change often — message limits, feature gating and trial conditions all vary between providers and over time. This guide can't tell you what OurDream currently offers free of charge, because only OurDream can state that accurately. Before you pay anything, work through the questions in our guide to choosing an AI girlfriend: what the free tier includes, what renews automatically, and how to cancel.
Category 03
AI Girlfriend Chat
How the conversation itself behaves, what a character retains, and what the limits are.
You choose a character, then type messages into a chat window and receive written replies in that character's voice. Behind the scenes the platform combines your message with the character's defined personality and with whatever earlier context it retains, and generates a response consistent with both. What you control is the framing: tone, how much initiative the character takes, and where the conversation goes. Our guide to how AI girlfriend chat works explains what each of those levers changes and how to use them well.
Many can, and memory is one of the main features separating a companion platform from a plain chatbot. How much is retained, and for how long, varies by platform and is usually described in the privacy policy rather than on the marketing page. Before you rely on memory — or share something sensitive because you assume it will be kept privately — read what Canadian users should check about AI girlfriend privacy.
Almost anything within the platform's content policy, which is the limiting factor rather than the technology. Everyday conversation, roleplay, creative writing, flirtation and adult content are all part of the category on platforms that permit them — and every platform draws that line differently. Read the terms of the specific service you're using rather than assuming. Our guide to adult AI chat covers the tone and etiquette side of this in more detail.
Halfway through — if you'd rather see how a character behaves than read about it, the platform is one click away.
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Character Creation
What building a character involves, and how much of it you actually need to do well.
Character creation is a standard feature on modern AI companion platforms and is usually the centrepiece of the product. You typically define appearance, personality, relationship type and voice, then save the character and start chatting. This site's creation guide walks through those decisions in the order they matter. The tools themselves live on OurDream, not here — nothing on this website generates, saves or stores a character.
The common set is appearance, personality, relationship type and voice. Beyond that, platforms differ: some let you write a free-form backstory, some offer scenario presets, and some let you tune how assertive or reserved the character should be. The setting that matters most is personality, because it determines how the character responds to you long after the novelty of the appearance has worn off. Voice is worth testing early too — a mismatch is hard to unhear.
No — length isn't the same as quality. A short description naming three specific traits produces a more consistent character than a page of vague adjectives, because the system has clear instructions rather than impressions. Write the things you'd want a person to notice about behaviour, not just looks: whether she leads a conversation or waits, how she handles disagreement, how quickly she warms up. Specificity is the variable that matters.
Category 05
AI Companions
The wider category that AI girlfriends sit inside — and what changes when the relationship isn't romantic.
The distinction between an AI girlfriend and a broader AI companion is a setting, not a different product. That's why the same character can feel like a partner in one session and a blunt, funny friend in another.
AI companion is the broader category. It covers the same underlying technology as an AI girlfriend but without requiring a romantic framing — a companion character might be a friend, a creative collaborator, a mentor figure or a fantasy archetype. The mechanics are the same: a defined personality, memory across sessions and some level of customisation. What changes is the relationship you set and the tone that follows from it. The AI Companion Canada guide covers the wider picture.
An AI girlfriend is a subset of AI companion. Every AI girlfriend is an AI companion; not every AI companion is positioned as a girlfriend. The practical difference is the relationship setting — a companion can be configured as a friend or a creative partner, which changes the tone the character holds and what the conversation is about. If you want the romance angle, that's the girlfriend subset. If you want someone to argue with about films, that's the wider category.
No. The category includes non-romantic personalities by design — characters built around conversation, humour, creative work or a shared interest. Fantasy archetypes, historical figures and collaborative writing partners are all common. This matters because it widens what the technology is useful for: a companion you talk to about a project you're working on is a different product experience from a romantic character, even when both run on the same platform and the same character engine.
Category 06
AI Roleplay
Scenario-based conversation: how to set one up, how to run it, and how to leave.
AI roleplay is scenario-based conversation: you set a premise — a place, a situation, a relationship between two characters — and the AI character commits to it, responding as someone inside that world rather than as an assistant outside it. Stakes, tension and continuity come from the scenario itself. It's the same character technology used with a narrative frame layered over it. Our AI roleplay guide covers the common scenario types and how to set one up.
No, though a little structure helps. Some people use asterisks or italics for actions and plain text for dialogue, which is a convention rather than a requirement — modern platforms handle either. What matters more is setting the scene clearly in the first message: who you are, where you are, and what's at stake. Vague openings produce vague scenes, which is the same rule that applies to ordinary chat.
Yes. Every scenario on a companion platform is something you can redirect, pause or abandon. If a scene isn't working, say what you want to change rather than starting over — a character that already has the context of the scene will handle a change of direction better than a fresh one. And if you want out of the scenario entirely, you can simply talk normally. The character will follow your lead.
Category 07 · Adult AI Chat
Adult AI Chat
The adult side of the category: what the terms mean, who the characters are, and where the limits sit.
It's text conversation with an AI character where the tone is flirty or intimate rather than purely conversational, on platforms that permit adult content. The category is defined by intent and tone rather than by a feature list. It's distinct from general companion chat in emphasis: adult chat is judged on immediacy and how well the character matches the energy you arrived with, where companion chat is usually judged on continuity and relationship building. See the adult AI chat guide for the specifics.
They should be, without exception, and every character described on this site is clearly an adult (20+). Platforms offering adult content are expected to keep minors out of both their character libraries and their user base, and a service that can't explain how it does that is a service to avoid. If you're evaluating a platform, look for an explicit adult-only policy and a real age verification step rather than assuming one exists.
The terms overlap and are often used interchangeably. Both describe intimate conversation with an AI character; "sex chat" tends to imply a more explicit register, while "adult chat" covers the wider range from flirty to explicit. Either way, what's permitted is set by the platform's content policy rather than by the label. Our AI sex chat guide covers character choice, tone and privacy for this part of the category.
Category 08
Privacy
The part of this category that's hardest to undo. Worth reading before you type anything you'd rather not have stored.
It depends entirely on the platform, and this is the question worth answering before you type anything you'd rather not have stored. The things that decide it: whether conversations are stored at all, how long they're kept, whether they're used to train models, whether your account is tied to a payment method, and what deletion actually removes. Our privacy guide for AI companions walks through each check, and the answer for any specific service is in its current privacy policy.
Five things, in this order: where conversations are stored and for how long; whether your chats are used to train models and whether you can opt out; what your account is tied to, whether that's an email, a phone number or a payment method; what deletion actually deletes, including backups; and whether there's a stated retention period in writing. A stated number is a commitment; silence is not a promise of anything. The full checklist is here.
Not necessarily. Deleting a conversation, deleting a character and closing an account are usually three different operations with three different results, and backups are frequently excluded from all three. If knowing that a conversation is genuinely gone matters to you, look for an explicit deletion policy rather than assuming the delete button is the whole story. Where a platform doesn't say, treat the answer as unknown rather than as favourable.
You can reduce how much is tied to your name, but full anonymity is unusual. A pseudonymous account and a separate email address separate the conversation from your identity; they don't separate it from your IP address, your device, or a payment record if you've paid for anything. That's not a reason to avoid the category — it's a reason to decide what you're comfortable sharing before the conversation is underway, rather than three messages into it.
Treat every message you send to an AI companion as something you'd be willing to have stored indefinitely. That single rule removes most of the risk in this category, regardless of what any individual policy says this month.
Category 09
Canadian Users
Billing, currency, regulation and where to actually try any of this.
Four things. First, what the free tier actually includes, so you know what you're buying. Second, the renewal terms — whether it auto-renews, and how to cancel if it does. Third, what currency you'll be billed in and whether your card issuer adds a foreign transaction fee, since many of these platforms bill from outside Canada. Fourth, the privacy and data retention terms. Our guide to choosing an AI girlfriend covers the comparison questions in full.
Canadian privacy legislation — PIPEDA federally, plus provincial laws in some provinces — sets rules for organisations handling personal information in Canada. How far those rules reach an offshore platform depends on where the operator is based and whether it does business here, and that varies by provider. This guide can't give legal advice or confirm any specific platform's compliance. Treat it as a question to put to the provider directly, and read the privacy checklist before you share anything sensitive.
This guide can't confirm the currency OurDream bills in, or which payment methods it accepts — those details change, and only OurDream can state them accurately. What's worth doing either way: check the billing currency before you subscribe, and check whether your card issuer applies a foreign transaction fee on top. If you're billed in a foreign currency, the amount on your statement will move with the exchange rate between billing periods.
On OurDream itself. Every chat window, character card, creation panel and voice control on this website is a static illustration — this site has no chat, no character creation and no accounts, and nothing here is generated or stored locally. Each demonstration exists to show you what the experience looks like before you commit to it. When you're ready for the real thing, the link through to OurDream is where accounts, characters and conversations actually live.
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If what you wanted to know isn't answered here, the guides cover it in more depth — or you can skip the reading and see how a character behaves for yourself. Everything specific to OurDream, from pricing to features, is on OurDream.